Why can't it be as simple to debug mental and emotional issues as it is to debug code? You just sit down and work through things line by line and it all makes sense, no matter how ugly the code is, in the end. And if something doesn't work you rip it out and replace it - not always easy, but at a fundamental level still fairly simple. Or debugging a network - if there is a problem you can put a sniffer on the wire and look at the fundamental level to find out where the miscommunication is. Interpersonal communication should be so simple.
I'm just sick of seeing people I love and care for sad, lonely, and/or upset. And, kind of sick of that myself I guess.